Ha, ha. I am 71 years old. 10 years ago I was 5' 8" tall and weighed nearly 200#. I am now 5' 7" tall (we shrink as we get older) and weigh 140#. Hard work but well worth it! As far as respect, like Rodney Dangerfield, I don't get nunna that anyway! (I carry at 10:30ish cross draw position.)