I went to the range with my oldest sister last week. She is about 5'2 and might go 105 soaking wet. Of the guns I brought along she liked the TP9 the best. Two guns I had with me were "traditional ladies guns", the Glock 42 and the Shield 9mm. She didn't like either, not enough grip. She did very well with the TP9.
I think the various T series Kahrs are a lot more user friendly than their smaller counterparts.