Lakeline makes a little charging handle for the 9's but I just visited the site and they don't show one for the 380.
Depending on what your hand issues are it may or may not help. I'm dealing with some aggravating hand issues myself.
HarryLee awhile back send me some precut strips of skateboard tape that fit between the serrations on my PM45. It helps quite a bit and so far it's holding up much better than I expected. I only had one strip fall off and he of course has sent several extra so just put a new one on.
The thing about good safeties such as the 1911 and the Mustang Greg posted is they are a natural motion. Smiths had the safety backwards where you had to flip it up to fire, an unnatural movement.
I have no issue with a good safety. I use it as a thumb rest. Don't take long to get used to at all.
In Memory of Paul "Dietrich" Stines.
Dad: Say something nice to your cousin Shirley
Dietrich: For a fat girl you sure don't sweat much.
Cue sound of Head slap.
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