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I have the MK9, K9, MK40, and K40. I've also own the M&P Shield 9mm, 40s&w, and 45acp. I don't recognize any more flip nor is the 40 all that much harder to shoot vs the 9mm IMHO. It's all relative.
Also, know that a lot of people are 45acp fans and will choose that caliber no matter what. 40s&w ammo comes in a variety of grains, velocities, muzzle energy aka foot pounds, low flash/recoil offerings, so on and so forth, so when people make a blanketed claim that a gun chambered in that round flips or is uncontrollable, take it with a grain of salt. There are many 9mm rounds that are higher velocity higher than 40s&w and there are several factory 45acp offerings that are also in 165gr and 185gr* just like 40s&w can be had in that have more or simular velocity and muzzle energy as 40s&w, yet everyone throws out canned responses whenever 40s&w is mentioned. Take it all with a grain of salt because it's not the black and white binary difference that people make it out to be.
As far as your question goes while ignoring caliber, you can akways make the smaller gun bigger, but you can't make the bigger gun smaller. If I was in your case I'd go with the smaller gun because it's more versatile. You can deep concealment and even pocket carry it when need be, or you can use a standard mag with a pinky extension or an extended magazine when you don't need the extra concealablity but want a full grip.
*There are several commercial range and self-defense 45 acp offerings in 185 grain that compare to or exceed the commercial range and self defense of 40s&w in 180 gr velocit and muzzle energy, yet most would, without thinking about it, tell you that 40s&w will kick more and have more muzzle flash just as a programmed canned response. Whether 9mm, 40s&w, or 45acp is snappy or not depends on the specific ammo choice in that caliber that you go with.