I wouldn't say I'm recoil sensitive exactly. I find the recoil on my K40 to be too much for a defensive carry gun. Too much time and effort to get back on target for a follow up shot. Mid size guns like the XD's and Glocks etc, I had no issue with in 40 at all. I actually had several Glock 40's, all sold to other officers when they became hard to get during I believe the Clinton dynasty.
I'm not a devout 9mm fan actually but given these choices I'd go with the 9 myself. And due to cost, age, and several other factors I find myself with a 9mm 1911, although I still prefer the 45 for serious business.
Kahr not making the 40 at present is I'm told a temporary thing. They may start producing them again in the future and hopefully they will. A lot of 40 fans out there.
In Memory of Paul "Dietrich" Stines.
Dad: Say something nice to your cousin Shirley
Dietrich: For a fat girl you sure don't sweat much.
Cue sound of Head slap.
RIP Muggsy & TMan
"If you are a warrior legally authorized to carry a weapon and you step outside without that weapon, then you become a sheep, pretending that JOCKO will not come today."